Should You Pay For Her On First Dates

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by: frankrobins
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Date: Mon, 14 Mar 2011 Time: 3:42 AM
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Most men out in the dating world are struggling with whether they should pay for a woman when out on an initial date. You're suppose to have a good time with the stunning woman in front of you. There's no need to make things complex by adding awkward situations.

I'm pretty sure you've read other dating tips telling you that you shouldn't pay for a woman on first dates. Reflect on that for just a bit. Makes you feel kind of cheap doesn't it? How do you think the woman in front of you is going to view your action? She's probably thinking you're not the kind of guy who's going to fulfill her needs of having someone that can provide for her. Man that's got to hurt!

Here's what to do in this position.

I'm about to disclose an idea that's fool-proof and will allow you to manage the situation smoothly and with confidence. Here it is...

Whoever initiated the get-together... PAYS. That is it plain and simple.

Taking a woman out on a date is just like other social situations. Let's say for example you invited your friends out for some fun. When the bill came, what likely ended up happening was you went ahead and took care of the entire bill. So how come when you're on a date with a woman you treat the situation differently? Why would you even be thinking about attempting to split the bill with her? What if for whatever reason your date didn't have the cash to pay for her share? This is no joke! This happens every so often with younger women who may still be in college with no consistent source of income.

And don't fret she isn't going to think you're just like all the other guy she's met because you paid for the date. in fact, she's probably thinking you're the kind of guy that has the situation handled which allows her to just enjoy the magic carpet ride with you.

Now you're probably thinking this all makes perfect sense but you also don't want to be taken advantage of by women who are labeled as "gold diggers". And I hear you. Don't do what I'm about to say and this issue won't be an issue.

Quit taking women to expensive venues when you're out on a first date!

Be a man and start leading your interactions with her. When you don't take her out to eat at a fancy sushi join you won't have to pay for it. Not only are you able to take things further with her because she won't feel as if you're trying to buy her love. You're also going to avoid the dinner date that's just so cliche and boring.

Come up with other places that you can take women out on dates.

For example, getting coffee then going for a walk in the park is a great idea for a first date. You're not going to go broke shelling out money for two cups of coffee totaling a measly 10 dollars. Truth be told, if you've chosen a quality woman, there's a good chance she'll invite you next out time and even pay for all of it.

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