How To Turn A Friend Into A Lover

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by: frankrobins
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Date: Mon, 7 Mar 2011 Time: 2:23 AM
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Okay let's talk about the dreaded "friends" zone.

So there's this girl that you really adore, however she only thinks you two are friends. In fact, you're so attracted to her that you did anything you could to make her happy. You listen patiently while she complains about all the bad things her boyfriend is doing to her. When her dog died and she cried, you were there for her. You even allowed her to stay over at your place when she got into a big argument with her boyfriend that one time.

You thought that is what is attractive to women. By being nice and supportive all the time.

You've fallen hard for her but it appears she doesn't see you in the same light. You collected up the courage at one time and reveal to her how much you felt for her only to have her reply by saying she treasures your friendship and didn't want to lose you as a friend by being romantic.

Now you're probably thinking what you could possibly do differently that will make her like you romantically.

It's time to make a change.

Things you've done before didn't yield you what you wanted. Here's what you need to do.

Immediately stop spending so much time with her. People in general will not value things that they can easily get. Because she has you at her every beck and call, she knows you'll stick around and so she can do whatever she wants. Quit doing that. Spend that time you now have and start doing things that you love. While you're doing your own thing, if she calls you and wants to hang out, let her know you aren't available and that you'll get back with her. Which brings us to the next rule, don't make her or women the top priority in your life.

She'll start seeing you differently when you start living your life and stop being so available to her. She'll start to slowly have more respect for you. The more a woman respects you, the more attraction she will feel for you.

Change the way you treat her. Make fun of her. Tell her she must be emo since she seems to only like guys who hurt her. When she starts talking about all her problems stop trying to help her instead jokingly tell her she has issues and to go see a therapist. The bottom line is, do things differently... make certain things are fun and playful.

Now that you've put a little space between you and her... take it further and start talking to women and making plans with them. The next time you see your friend, be certain to let her know about your plans with other women. Tell her that you're going to be very busy the next couple of days because of the dates you've set with other women. It is during this time that her true colors will show. There's a good chance that she will start showing feelings of jealousy. Jealousy is an extremely powerful motivator. Sometimes women will start to develop feelings for you even when those feelings never existed before all because she became jealous.

During this time, if you still want to make her your girlfriend then you need to take it a step further. Get her to meet up with you and start making a move. She's not going to reject you at this point.

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